Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives.
If we were allowed to go through life without any obstacles, we would be crippled.
We would not be as strong as what we could have been. And we could never fly.
Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives.
If we were allowed to go through life without any obstacles, we would be crippled.
We would not be as strong as what we could have been. And we could never fly.
To have loyal friends, you must be a loyal friend.
To be trusted, you must be trustworthy.
In life, every person has two paths to choose from…loyalty or disloyalty, honesty or dishonesty.
This comprehensive principle of self-improvement is called “kaizen”, or “constant and never-ending improvement”. It’s at the core of what it means to become a black belt.
Besides being creatures of habit, we are all emotional beings. Most of the actions you take are based on your emotions.
So how do we learn to make better decisions? On the mat and off, the key is to learn to control your emotions so they don’t control you.
One of the greatest benefits you’ll see from Martial Arts training is what we call “positive self-control” when it comes to your emotions. Rather than just reacting all the time, you can learn to do three important things:
First, assess…
Then respond…
Then reset.
When you train yourself in this way, you begin to understand that there are ways that you can influence your own emotions, putting you in the driver seat.
This is a very empowering experience, one that is directly in line with the principles of Jiu-Jitsu: efficiency, effectiveness, creativity and consideration.
If you’ve ever lost control of your emotions, this usually means you’ve grown mad, sad or upset over something that’s happened to you. You’ve allowed your emotions to be in the driver’s seat, when they’d do much better as a passenger. With consistent training and practice, you can and will gain control over your emotions; and this will allow you to excel in your training and your life.
Franklin D. Roosevelt, stricken with polio at age 39, became president at the height of the Great Depression, and helped the American people regain their faith in themselves. He wrote, “We are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of our own minds.”
What are you a “prisoner” of? What are you doing to change it?
The things you focus on day in and day out have a significant influence on your attitude. Your daily habits can have a positive or a negative impact on your thoughts and emotions. The more you direct your focus and thinking patterns, the better control you will have over your emotions.
Martial arts training puts us directly in front of ourselves. We’re reminded about both our strengths and our shortcomings on a regular basis – a personal inventory that many people lack the courage to consider. As modern warriors, we have to consider the physical, mental and emotional habits we’re building as we work towards black belt.
Thoughts lead to feelings, your feelings lead to your actions, and your actions always determine your results.
Improve your thinking and you will improve your life.
Belief is the knowledge that we can do something. It’s an inner feeling that we can accomplish the things we desire to do…and decide to achieve.
One of the truly great things about the goal of Black Belt is that it re-invests us in ourselves: it asks us to commit to self-belief. When you believe in yourself, you gain power and your eyes open to opportunities that lead to greatness.
To achieve high levels of success in any field, you must believe you can do it. Surrounding yourself with a powerful support team – your family, your friends, your instructors, your bosses – helps to build this feeling of belief and possibility.
Your thoughts can be positive and filled with belief, or they can be negative and filled with disbelief. If you’re not building the habit of self-belief through positive, proactive activities, you can slip into self-doubt and “stinking thinking”.
Either way, your mind will convince you to succeed and achieve, or to fail and give up.
Have confidence in yourself and your ability to become more and achieve more than you already have. Confidence and self-belief are like muscles that have to be exercised and used to become stronger.
“Believe you can and you are halfway there.”
— Theodore Roosevelt
Fill your mind with thoughts of success and victory – work to eliminate thoughts of failure and defeat. Surround yourself with people that support and encourage you to go for it, and dump the naysayers that fill your mind with fear and doubt.
See it, believe it…and you’ll make the change a reality.
We love taking the practice outside the dojo, especially when we’re helping kids learn how to stay safe. Our afternoon with Healthy Living Ministries was great – and here is what they had to say about the class:
Greetings,
Good day to you Professor Noto…We really had a great time in the Stranger Danger Class on Friday; in fact I learned some important life saving skills for myself…Thank You!…..The Children could not stop talking about their new experience…Please count us in for the next class…Our Youth will participate in the “Stranger Danger” class.
Warmly,
Rev. S. Jordon
Friends Healing Network for Healthy Living Ministries, Inc.